Hi,
I have never used sealant unless the gasket manufacturer specifies differently.
The secret is getting the mating surfaces correct and clean, the right gasket, installing as per good engineering practices such as new studs/bolts of the correct length, threads and blind holes clean correct torque and sequence.
If the above is impossible and there is no other alternative I guess sealant would be used. There is a lot of cylinder heads with broken fins due to people breaking the sealed joint apart.
Best wishes...